I have said for years that if only I were someone who dealt with stress by throwing myself into work, I could be a gazillionaire by now. Unfortunately, just the opposite is true; as stress piles on, I just sloooooooow dooooown. Stress just saps my energy. Over the years this fact as much as anything has propelled my attempts to find healthy ways of dealing with whatever life throws at me. I cannot afford to let things stress me out if they don’t have to; if I did I’d never get anything done!
Of course, sometimes life can overwhelm even our best coping mechanisms and I can feel that familiar lack of energy creeping in. And I fight back the best I can. I see my doctor and take my medicine and exercise and try not to spend too much time in bed and maybe even drink more water and eat less sugar. I push myself to keep moving even when I don’t want to. I make myself talk to people. I try to be kinder to myself and everyone around me.
But every once in a blue moon, the stress gets the upper hand and nothing I do helps Continue reading “Allowing Rest to Restore”